The happy couple met on season 3 of the Netflix show — and have an inkling as to why their love has defied the odds
Reality TV relationships aren't always known for going the distance, with a lot of showmances often ending in contentious breakups that play out on social media for all to see.
However, some reality TV stars have successfully found their soulmates on dating shows, competition shows, even unscripted series — and created relationships that have gone the distance. For PEOPLE's 2026 Love Week, we chatted with the couples who have managed to make it work, defying the pitfalls that sometimes come with launching your love story on national television.
Below, Love on the Spectrum stars Madison Marilla and Tyler White talk about first impressions, the pros and cons of meeting on reality TV and what keeps the spark going.
Love on the Spectrum stars Tyler White and Madison Marilla have only been together for about a year, but clearly, their love for one another is strong.
The two met on a blind date and immediately hit it off, bonding over their love for music and fun adventures. And despite being polar opposites in some instances — "him being more spontaneous and me being more of a planner," she told PEOPLE — they've learned to compromise and have worked out a good rhythm for their relationship.
Tyler: I'd say the best part is falling in love, having all of my family and friends watch it, especially when we watch it with mom and daddy and aunt and papa. Also, having everybody from my two hometowns of Plant City, Florida and Shirley, Arkansas, reaching out to me and letting me know how proud they are, as well as all my DJing clients.
Of course, [there are] all the great opportunities like MCing at CMA Fest, as well as Tampa Bay Rodeo, Christmas Lane in Plant City ... singing the National Anthem for the [Milwaukee] Bucks, [Tampa Bay] Lightning and [Tampa Bay] Rays and being part of the Gasparilla Children's Parade.
I also love when the fans come up to us at airports, Publix, and restaurants.
I'd say probably the worst is the negative comments I get on Instagram. But the truth is, I've had critics slam me on my DJing stuff. They say it's too annoying or I'm too much of an MC instead of a DJ. But even that, I mean, I always look at the good and the good's the better one.
Madison: Yes. I would say the best part about meeting on TV is that [casting director] Sean Bowman and [show creator] Cian O'Clery did really well with their search to set us up on a blind date. They thought everything through and put us together.
Tyler: Yep. Act of God.
Madison: Yeah, it definitely was an act of God.
The worst part was having to wait until the show aired to reveal that we're a couple.
Tyler: Yeah. Well, that too. But you know what? If they say go ahead and tell everybody, it wouldn't be as big. We wouldn't have these opportunities, I don't think.
Madison: I would say because Love on the Spectrum doesn't have any drama on it, like The Bachelor or Love Island.
Tyler: Yep. And I think the fact that we're both on the autism spectrum, we both prayed that God would send us each other. We also spend time, more time with each other than other TV couples do. I mean, that's the way I look at it.
Madison: Yes. I definitely would agree. Not a lot of TV couples do that.
Tyler: The most beautiful girl I've ever laid eyes on. Lord, please let it be the one. And after that first date, I knew you were the one and I wondered if you felt the same way and you did.
Madison: Yeah. Remember my first reaction to you was your cowboy boots and your cowboy hat and your southern accent? I knew I got myself a country guy and we immediately bonded over country music. I knew.
TYLER: I did too.
Madison: I would say to trust the process.
Tyler: And honestly, I'd say forget about the TV, take time to know that person. One [more] thing I'd say about TV, know that the whole world is watching, so don't say or do anything you'll regret later.
Madison: And I would say don't focus on the cameras. Focus on your date.
Tyler: Our first kiss.
Madison: I would agree with that. Our first kiss and also the first time we met at Sunken Gardens.
Tyler: I'd say that too.
Madison: Those were two very special moments.
Madison: I would say that Sean and Cian, from Love on the Spectrum, set us up on a blind date. I had no idea who would walk out and then you walked out.
Tyler: Well, basically I wrote a song about it that people will hear later on talking about that first date, especially in the first verse and can't wait for y'all to hear it. Oh yeah, baby.
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2026-02-12T17:51:26Z